One Size Doesn't Fit All
How do we deal with individuals as individuals? One of the most difficult aspects to grasp in the 21st century is the idea of "one size fits all." That is the notion that all people should fit into tidy categories. Sometimes there comes a person who doesn't fit our criteria, path, work, or more. Instead of forcing everyone to march the same tune, we should instead care for those who are on different routes than us.
In this FatherSide Chat, Father Gene reflects on growing up, finding your identity, and learning how to share your unique “song” with the world—balancing individuality and belonging while navigating rejection, growth, and the challenge of staying true to yourself.
What does a truly successful life look like? Father Gene challenges the usual definitions of status and achievement, offering a deeper, more human measure rooted in relationships, presence, and impact—being someone others genuinely want to invite back into their lives.